For Newcomers

Newcomers’ Class On the Quaker Way

Facilitated by the Meeting’s Outreach Committee, this discussion class introduces people — who are new to Quakers, or new to this Meeting in the last couple of years or so, or who are thinking of becoming a Member — to the Meeting and to the wider Quaker world.

The class strives to facilitate personal spiritual growth, provides an opportunity to ask questions about Quakers, and to recognize the commonality among Quakers while cherishing the diversity among those who value the Quaker Way.  This class is usually offered in the fall. 

Introduction to the Quaker Way: A Class for Newcomers
Beginning in October 2019

The three-session class is intended for people who are new to Quakers, or new to this Meeting, in the last couple of years or so, or who are thinking of becoming a member of Olympia Monthly Meeting.

And to kick it off, there will be a Preview on Sunday, Oct. 6, from 12 noon to 12:30 at the Meetinghouse, at which a Quaker Speak video will be shown.

  • Preview: October 6, 12:00-12:30 p.m.
  • Class Dates: October 13, October 27, and November 10, 2019
  • Class Time: 7:00 to 8:45 p.m.
  • Where: Meetinghouse at 3201 Boston Harbor Road

The goals of the course are to:

  • Facilitate personal spiritual growth and create an environment for spiritual sharing with other newcomers such as takes place in Meeting for Worship and in Meeting small groups
  • Get better acquainted with some others in the Meeting and with Meeting activities
  • Provide an opportunity to ask questions about Quakers and about the Meeting
  • Get acquainted with some current thoughts, experience, concerns, and service activities of Friends
  • Recognize and cherish the diversity among Quakers.

If you plan to join the class we encourage you to let us know (either at the Preview or contact Sam Merrill with this contact form or call 360-866-8839).

We are prepared to provide child care – provided you let us know of the need in advance.

What are Quaker testimonies?

Quaker testimonies of simplicity, peace, integrity, community, equality, and stewardship (SPICES) flow from our faith.  The emphasis in Quaker spiritual life is on service and concern for others rather than salvation.  Instead of a creed, Quakers write queries that help us reflect on our values and actions.  Rather than emphasizing beliefs, Friends seek truth through experience throughout their lifetimes.  Friends speak of “that of God” in everyone, and strive to reach it.  Thus Quakers respect the sanctity of all human beings and the equality of women and men, value diversity in opinions and lifestyles, and oppose all kinds of violence while seeking non-violent solutions to conflict.

dove&branch-sm-faceleftMeeting for Worship – A Description

Here is how one Quaker meeting describes Meeting for Worship:

We welcome you to Meeting for Worship and trust that you may find here a source of help and strength, just as your presence will strengthen us.

To those not familiar with Quakerism or with our manner of worship, it may at first seem strange that upon gathering at the appointed time we sit in silence, that there is no appointed minister or programmed service, and that we take no offering.

We have no sacraments or rituals because all living is to us a sacrament.  We have no paid ministers because each of us should share in the responsibility of ministry.  We have no prepared prayers because our unspoken prayers are a direct communion with the infinite.  We worship in a living silence where dwells the eternal presence of God.

God is, to us, not a far-off, unapproachable being, but a loving presence.  Every human soul is akin to the Divine and therefore every person may in some degree understand Divine Will and respond to it as Jesus, the prophets and devout men and women of all times have done.  But to attain this understanding calls for definite action on our part.

Therefore, we gather in silence to seek together a fuller knowledge of that Will and an understanding of its practical outcome for our lives.  In silence we wait that God may speak; we endeavor to yield ourselves up to the Divine Will and to come into harmony with the great spiritual force of the Universe.  Worship is not dependent on the outward actions on any one person but flows through the meeting from the time the group settles into silence.

A handshake terminates the period of worship.

Effective worship requires an earnest effort from all of us to bring a sense of oneness into the Meeting.  We should all explore the “inner chambers” of our own souls.  Frequently we become conscious of a Presence pervading the meeting.  The silence may become eloquent or the impulse to share a thought may compel one of us to rise and express a message or a vocal prayer.

In a Friends Meeting, anyone who feels called to speak may do so.  It is well to remember, however, that the basis of our worship is silence, and that the spoken messages should be brief and of a spiritual nature, not deliberately argumentative or contentious.  It is not uncommon for a meeting for worship to be completely silent, and such a meeting may give worshipers a special feeling of participation and spiritual uplift.

In this bustling world of ours, there are far too few chances for calm meditation, for sane thinking or for attaining a spiritual vantage point from which to view life in a better perspective.  We are reminded of the words of the Quaker poet, Whittier:

And so, I find it well to come
For deeper rest to this still room,
For here the habit of the soul
Feels less the outer world’s control;
The strength of mutual purpose pleads
More earnestly our common needs
And from the silence multiplied
By these still forms on either side,
The world that time and sense have known
Falls off and leaves us God alone.
–from “Quaker Worship, An Introduction”, State College Friends Meeting, Pennsylvania

What do Quakers mean…?

What do Quakers mean when they say…? A Glossary (PDF format)
Created by Chapel Hill (NC) Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends (Quaker)

A Small Glossary of Quaker Terms – by Cheltenham (UK) Quaker Meeting. “The descriptions here indicate how the terms are commonly used within Britain Yearly Meeting; usage in other countries may differ.”

Small Discussion Groups

One of the better ways to come to know the Quakers is to join one of the many small discussion groups (PDF format).

Check Our Calendar

Much of what we do is listed on our calendar which is here on this website.

More Ways to learn about Quakerism or to become more involved in Olympia Monthly Meeting